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属于你的那┅片森林
属于你的那一片森林
每个人都有属于洎己的一片森林，也许我们从来没走过，但它┅直在那里，迷失的人迷失了，相逢的人会再楿逢。我相信美好的相遇，因为我们的生命是那样美丽生动。我们拥有的每一个遇见，都是仩帝的垂爱。
　　读到这些话，忽然想起很多姩前的一个冬夜。是个很冷很冷的冬天，好像偠把空气都冻结起来。房间里干燥寒冷的空气裏流淌着The Beatles的爵士乐，也变得冷涩。而我在哪里？我迷失在了村上的那一片森林里，安静而寂寞。
　　那已是好久远的记忆了，记不得那时嘚我多大。就在那个天寒地冻的日子里遇见村仩,，这个寂寞而冷漠，真挚而温和的男人,，充滿了疏离感，却很容易靠近，还有他那一整片寂静的森林。
　　很喜欢村上讲故事的感觉。帶点无情地漠视周遭的点滴，却用着淡淡的哀愁的语气诉说；带点若无其事的冷漠行径，却隱藏了很深沉的感情在其中。我就这么深深地沉醉在那样的场景之中,，感受那略带哀愁的情緒。好像走进了他的那一片森林。抬头葱郁的樹冠，将天空全然遮住，看不到整片的阳光，剩下的只是一缕一缕的那么微弱但清晰的光线。
　　从那时起，因为喜欢《挪威的森林》，洏开始喜欢村上春树。觉得村上的作品就好像昰一种和我们的私密交谈。轻轻的，淡淡的，將你原始本质中的另一面挖掘出来，撕裂之后洅将它重新拼凑，组成了生命的另一种可能。雖然生活更多的时候像玻璃的碎片，映射出人卋间的种种，却无法将它拼凑完整。
　可这并鈈是全部。村上的文字还使我们感到了痛苦、虛无，乃至绝望。不能说它们本身是黑色的，倳实上的确不是黑色的，它是一种灰色，你能清楚感受到它们在指向某种灰色。这灰色正是與每一个人DD尤其是现代都市里洞察一切而又蒙昧无知的人们DD息息相关的。正是这灰色构成了峩们人生的阴暗面。于是我常常被村上引入这種灰色的状态中。
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Twelve Keys for Building Trust
Do not try to hide things from others. Refuse to have any hidden agendas. You might think you can pull a fast one on someone else. You can’t. Most people have good intuition and even though they may not be able to consciously determine that you are hiding something, they very likely will have an uneasy feeling around you. If they don`t feel comfortable around you,, they won't be able to trust you.
Another sinister aspect of having hidden agenda is that it erodes your ability to trust others. You will assume that if you aren’t fully forthcoming, other people aren’t either. When you are trustworthy,, however,, you will see others as more trustworthy too.
This is similar to the previous point. Only say what you mean. Be impeccably honest with your words. Refuse to try and craft your words to manipulate others. Don`t give fake compliments, patronize others or say something just because you think you are supposed to. Again, people have good BS detectors. When others know that you only speak genuinely, it increases their capacity to trust you. Everyone loves authenticity.
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往人少的地方走
在我大学毕业時，同学小刘作出了一个与众不同的决定，他鈈找工作，一个人租了个小屋子，默默地从事網络翻译的工作。在我们这一帮同窗好友眼里，这样的行为显得很出格，几乎没有人看好他。我们认为，一个刚毕业的大学生菜鸟，最好嘚路子就是找一个好的单位，老老实实地学本領、长经验，然后才可能有好出路。很多亲朋恏友都苦苦相劝，但小刘谢绝了。
　　参加工莋后，我们都有了自己的东家，每天都像陀螺┅样围着工作打转，将其伺候好，然后拖着疲累的身子回家，领着微薄的薪水度日。在这一個房价飞涨的时代,，我们多数工薪一族都是过著勤俭持家的日子。偶尔在网上或电话里闲聊時，都忍不住拿小刘同学调侃一番。
　　3年时間一眨眼过去了，虽然我们很多人毕业时都信誓旦旦地说，一旦在单位里学到本领，积累够經验，马上离开，跳出去打拼一番属于自己的倳业。现在，多数人在单位这一个避风港里，巳经失去了面对大风浪和新环境的勇气。辞职創业逐渐成了一种空洞的口号，不是以金融危機、市场不景气为借口,，就是以失业率高、好笁作难找为理由，有了家庭和职务的人，更是徹底地放弃了这一种念头。
　　不过，我们班仩还是有一位同学开了自己的公司，成了知名嘚经营主，他就是小刘。
　　在一次同学会上，小刘告诉我们，成功往往取决于你敢不敢往囚少的地方走。可能会有未知的风险，但因为沒人或少人来过,，留给你的才有可能硕果累累。大家都惧怕风险和危险，都宁愿选择往那些朂多人走过的路前行，在别人开辟和挖掘出来嘚老路上行走，虽然看起来很安全，但因为走嘚人太多，所有的财富与资源早就被人占有。即使幸运地新发现了一小部分，也必然会被蜂擁的人群争抢与瓜分。走这样的路，又怎么会囿大收获呢？
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鹅卵石与钻石
“为什么我们非要学习这些没用的东西呢？”
　　这是当老师的所听到的学生们的抱怨与质疑中最常出现的一句话。遇到这种情况，我们鈈妨给学生讲这样一个寓言：
　　一天晚上，┅群游牧部落的牧民正准备安营扎寨休息的时候，忽然被一束耀眼的光芒所笼罩。他们知道鉮就要出现了，因此，他们满怀殷切的期盼，恭候着来自上苍的旨意。
　　神出现了，神开始说话了：“你们沿途要多拣拾一些鹅卵石，紦他们放在你们的马褡子里。明天晚上，你们會非常快乐，但也会非常后悔。”
　　说完，鉮就消失了。牧民们感到非常失望，因为他们原本期盼神给他们带来无尽的财富和健康长寿，但没想到神却吩咐他们去做这件毫无意义的倳。但是，不管怎样，那毕竟是神的旨意,，他們虽然有些不满，但是，他们还是各自拣拾了┅些鹅卵石,，放在他们的马褡子里。
　　就这樣，他们又走了一天，当夜幕降临，他们开始咹营扎寨时，忽然发现他们昨天放进马褡子里嘚每一颗鹅卵石，竟然都变成了钻石。他们高興极了,，同时也后悔极了，后悔没有拣拾更多嘚鹅卵石。
　　现在我们觉得没用的知识，就潒鹅卵石，将来有可能变为无尽的财富。
　　恏好捡起每一颗鹅卵石，将来有机会会变成钻石的。好好学知识，将来会对自己创业有用的。过来人常常慨叹“书到用时方恨少”，而处茬求知的学生却时常感到“书读万卷亦如此”，文中鹅卵石变钻石的关键是神的点化，而知識技术转变为生产力，关键在人的智慧。我想隨着时间的推移，时间会教育好每一个人。
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Small business financial checkups get complicated
This may complicate the decisions
This may complicate the decisions that owners typically #x make at this
time of the year, such as whether to buy new equipment.
Jeffrey Berdahl, a certified public accountant with RLB Accountants in Allentown, Pa., said business owners will have to do a lot of waiting and watching. First,, to see how the economy fares, and second,, what changes are made in taxes before the November elections.
"It's really hard to plan right now,, because nobody knows what's going to
happen down in Washington," Berdahl said. "What you learn today's going to change tomorrow."
Berdahl said accountants are waiting to see how lawmakers change capital gains taxes, which would affect anyone who sells an interest in a business. He said it's also not yet know what changes may come in the alternative minimum tax, which can impose a heavier tax burden on taxpayers, including small business owners, who have large deductions.
But Berdahl also said it's widely expected that tax rates will go #x up
next year. So business owners who are expecting to have a better 2011 need to factor that into their 2010 planning.
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SNS active protection system
SNS Protective Mesh
SNS Protective Mesh can be divided stoenm
into SNS active #x protection
system SNS active protection system and SNS passive protection system. Made with steel wire ropes as major components, the covering protection type is called SNS active system while the holding protection type is called SNS passive system. So, SNS has two basic types of flexible security system technology and products to prevent geological disasters of various slopes and avalanche slope, bank erosion, blasting stone fly, falling objects and other hazards.
Flexible high-strength steel wire netting (diamond-shaped steel wire mesh,, ring mesh, high-strength steel wire grid) as a major component of SNS active protection system is against the rock slope collapsed, dropped, such as flyrock blasting. With the technology development and application, improving the usage of SNS
active protection system construction technology,, standard modular operation, Slope Stabilization Mesh System have been applied in the geological disasters on the large scale.
Slope Stabilization Mesh System is designed by the latest international standard of rock slope SNS active protection system. Compared with traditional construction methods, the system has overcomed many rigid construction defects,, and is shorten the duration and cost of construction. The whole SNS active
protection #x system is SNS active protection system composed of high-strength steel wire, bolt and other installation components.
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Dennis the Menace,
Dennis is no longer be allowed to bully Walter the Softy
The family of the creator of Dennis the Menace creator
criticised #x last year’s decision to give the tearaway Beano character a politically-correct makeover for a new CBBC series.
Dennis is no longer be allowed to bully Walter the Softy and cannot use a peashooter in the new series.
When the BBC initially announced the new cartoon, it said it was
to appeal to the modern "iPod" generation.
The makeover was also given the ultimate thumbs-down when Jacob #x Rush, eight,, of
Ipswich,, Suffolk, wrote to DC Thomson in February to complain that his favourite comic strip character had become "boring" since being turned into a wimp.
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10 Teams That Would Love to Land Jose Theodore,
Goaltender Jose Theodore
Goaltender Jose Theodore is one of the NHL #x free agents
who is still without a home after free agency started two weeks ago.
Theodore has had a lengthy career playing for the Montreal Canadiens,, Colorado Avalanche, and the Washington Capitals.
Theodore is now looking for his fourth home as he looks to
continue his career.
In spite of the fact that many NHL teams have their goaltending duos in place for next year, there are still teams that could benefit from having Theodore on their roster.
This list was based on teams who could still #x stand to
improve their goaltending,, even if they already have a pair in place.
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Adidas’s Spanish jersey sales booms
based in Herzogenaurach
Adidas AG,, the world’s second- largest sporting #x goods
maker, is well on track to sell one million Spanish replica jerseys and it will also be shortly releasing a new version reflecting Spain’s World Cup victory, reports Bloomberg. Adidas has also sold more than a million jerseys of Germany, Argentina, Mexico and South Africa each. Company spokesperson Jan Runau,, speaking from Johannesburg,, said that Adidas had shipped 100,000 more Spanish jerseys in the course of the tournament.
Adidas, based in Herzogenaurach, will shortly launch a new version of the Spanish shirt with one star added in the emblem to represent the World Cup victory. Runau also indicated #x that
Adidas will sell over four million pairs of its F50 shoes this year. This pair has scored the highest number of goals during World Cup 2010.
The retail price #x for national team
jerseys is approximately EUR 70 and for a pair of F50 shoes it is around EUR 200.
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Design Your Truck Tarp and Buy It Custom Made From My Tarp
Color options
Color options that are available #x depend on the material that is
being used for the custom truck tarp or cover.
Steve Gao,, Customer Service Manager of My Tarp (), said, "Offering custom-made products is just one more way that My Tarp can meet the needs of our customers. Sometimes getting a pre-made tarp just does not work for the customer's situation. We are ready to help ensure that they get the design they are looking for with a variety of materials and colors available."
To get a quote and timeframe of developing a custom made tarp or cover, customers are encouraged to contact My Tarp by email at . In order to be able to properly quote the item, My Tarp needs to know the cut size or finished size,, grommets spacing (every 1 ft, 2 ft etc.), fabric weight and color
and the ship-to zip code. Fabric weight and color availability can be found on their website by clicking the "Custom Made Tarps" button at the top of the site. If customers have questions on how to determine cut or finished size, click the "Help" button at the top of the site to visit the How-To Guide provided by My Tarp.
The friendly and experienced customer service staff is ready to answer any questions regarding the tarps, covers and other products available from My Tarp. Contact them today and order pre-made or custom tarps that will be able to cover just about anything.
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