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Communicate your feelings. Some men underestimate the importance of telling a woman how they feel. In many cases, men prefer to use actions rather than words to communicate their feelings. If that sounds like you, you should know that women need to hear "I love you" from time to time, so make it a point to express that sentiment. If you have trouble saying the words, try writing a note or getting a card to let her know how you feel.
The good news: turns out that men are more often the ones to declare feelings of love first in a relationship. Research has determined that men take only 88 days to tell their partner they love them (compared to a woman's 134)while another study says men say "I love you" first 70% of the time.
Watch your timing. Women prefer to hear "I love you" after sex rather than before. It could be they distrust the words a bit if they're uttered before sex as it makes them wonder if your saying "I love you" simply to get some action.
Be a good listener. Everyone--not only women--wants to be heard. If you know how to listen, your woman will greatly appreciate it, and the bond between you two will grow. Try these tips to be a better listener.
Get rid of distractions. That might mean turning off the ballgame or ignoring the text you just got. Try to keep from interrupting unless the question is crucial to your understanding of the situation. Putting your focus completely on your woman shows her that she's important and that you value and are interested in what she has to say.
Read non-verbal cues. Gestures, facial expressions and eye-movements can all be important. Don't just listen with your ears but also with your eyes so you can gain greater insight into what she's feeling.
See things from her point of view. Your girlfriend or wife may be upset about something that would never trouble you, or she might describe a scenario you can't imagine being a part of--but you have to try. Put yourself in her shoes to try to understand what she's communicating more clearly. Even if you don't agree with her reaction or her opinion, keep an open mind and let her know that in any dispute you're always on her side.
Refrain from solving the problem. When a woman is talking through a problem she's facing, a man's first response is to jump in and try to solve it. That impulse comes from a good place, but it's not what a woman wants. She simply wants to be heard, so refrain from coming to the rescue with a solution for the situation. If she does ask your opinion about what she should do, feel free to offer your suggestions, but don't be offended if she chooses a different course of action.
Ask her how she's feeling. In many cases, you'll know exactly how the woman in your life is feeling, but sometimes, especially when a relationship is new, you'll have to ask. Researchers in a study published in the journal PLOS showed men images of eyes belonging to men and women and discovered that it was twice as difficult for the men to accurately guess what women were feeling as it was for them to guess what the men were feeling. They also took longer attempting to interpret the women's eyes.
Fight fair. Even the closest of couples what's important is how you talk to your woman during those disagreements. Do not call names or make threats or use physical intimidation. When the fight is over, don't hold reach out and meet your woman halfway in making up. Do not discount her feelings by being defensive or try to end the fight by just cutting her off. We all need validation for our feelings.
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Give her advice.
Not necessarily! If she asks for advice, by all means, offer it. You shouldn't be offended or upset if she doesn't take it, however. Still, she may not always want advice, so refrain from giving it unless she explicitly asks. Try again...
Tell her about a time when you faced a similar problem.
Not exactly! If she asks for help or advice, then you can certainly relay how you've gotten through the issue in the past. Still, if she's going through the problem right now, she probably won't want to hear about your past experiences with it. Click on another answer to find the right one...
Offer a solution to the problem.
Try again! When a woman is telling you about a problem she is experiencing, be it with work, family, friends, etc, she isn't usually looking for a solution. She's perfectly capable of coming up with a solution on her own and if she wants help, she'll ask.
Guess again!
Just listen to her.
That's correct! She is perfectly capable coming up with solutions on her own. If she wants advice or help she'll ask you for it. Instead, she's looking for someone to talk to and get the problem off her chest. Give her that and she'll be very grateful. Read on for another quiz question.
Be polite. Women like to hear "please" and "thank you." Even if you've been dating a while or married a long time, don't throw manners out the window. Show her the same thoughtfulness you'd show anyone else.
Avoid using profanity. Never use profanity or offensive slang to refer to your woman, even if you're just kidding. If you hold her in high regard, be sure your language reflects that.
Don't change or break plans. If it's an emergency or the change is completely unavoidable, of course you can break a date, but be sure to give as much advance notice as possible and offer a very good explanation and an apology.
Be on time. If you're running late, call as soon as you can to let her know. Everyone's time is valuable, and being somewhere when you say you will is just common courtesy. Resist the impulse to put off calling because you fear your woman will be angry. She might be, but chances are she'll be even angrier if you're not in touch.
Treat her family well. Even if she says that she's not close with her family, always be respectful toward them and avoid criticizing them. Family bonds can be strong, and parents and siblings can influence a woman's decision to date or dump a guy.
If a woman has children, be friendly toward them and do your best to get to know them. Women are quick to say good-bye to men who do not treat their children with kindness. Don't ever overstep your bounds and try to parent or leave that to the woman in your life.
Avoid jealousy. Being jealous of male friends, co-workers and exes without good reason tells a woman that you consider her to be deceitful and of low moral character. Not a message you want to send to someone you care for.
Help around the house. If you two live together, pitch in on chores. Both of you are responsible for the housework. Don't expect her to constantly pick up after you. One of the surest ways to a woman's heart is with a vacuum cleaner in one hand and a box of laundry detergent in the other.
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That you care about her
Try again! You can show how much you care by being respectful and trusting. Show her you care by being communicative and enjoying quality time together. Acting jealous of other men does not show affection for her. Pick another answer!
That you are immature
Not exactly! Jealousy isn't necessarily an immature trait, but it can be a very damaging one. If you find yourself getting jealous, it's important to step back and determine why and if the feelings are necessary or important before making her feel bad for having male friends.
There’s a better option out there!
That you need to reevaluate the trust and honesty in your relationship.
That's right! Jealousy doesn't actually refer to the other men in her life, it refers to her. If you act jealous or possessive, it means you don't trust her and you think she's capable of being unfaithful. That's not a message you want to send to someone you love. It's important to take a step back and reevaluate your feelings, in order to be more trusting of the woman you love.
Read on for another quiz question.
That your relationship has reached a certain level
Nope! Your relationship reaches a certain level when you show you are able to trust her around other potential partners. Jealousy and possessiveness mean you are far from that level. Click on another answer to find the right one...
Acknowledge special occasions. Be sure you're ready with a card and a gift when her birthday rolls around, or it's time to celebrate Christmas or Valentine's Day. Marking these and other occasions with tokens of love and appreciation are a great way to make a woman feel special. Remember, too, that right or wrong, her family and friends will likely ask her what you got her or how the two of you celebrated. Don't put your woman on the spot by forcing her to lie or to admit that you let the occasion pass without recognition.
Celebrate your anniversary. Anniversaries are like mini-time machines--they allow the two of you to relive an important event (your wedding day, your first date, etc.) They're a chance to re-experience the special emotion created in and by that moment. Show the woman in your life that you value that event and all that's happened since, by doing something special on your anniversary. If you can afford it and your wife or girlfriend would enjoy it, go ahead and do something extravagant. But what can be most meaningful is a card or a conversation in which you reminisce about the good times and the growth of your relationship and your happiness.
Give thoughtful gifts. Gifts that come from the heart are among the most appreciated. Put some time and thought into choosing something your woman would love or make something for her yourself. When you invest that kind of time and thought into gift giving, she can't help but be touched.
Give flowers. Not every woman is a sucker for flowers, but the majority really do appreciate a bouquet, especially if it's being given for no particular reason. Bring flowers on your next date or have them delivered to her home or workplace if that's appropriate. A card that says simply "Thinking of you" is enough to bring a smile to her face.
Mention her to your friends. If she's important to you, your friends should know it. That doesn't mean that you have to go on and on about her (and never discuss what happens in the bedroom with your friends), but making it clear that she's an important part of your life will make her feel special versus make her feel like someone you want to hide or keep from your friends.
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Something really beautiful and unique
Not necessarily! Of course, if she's been coveting a necklace or gown, that might make a wonderful gift. Still, there's something far more universal and less lavish to consider. Pick another answer!
A card or conversation
Absolutely! At the end of the day, it doesn't take things and money to make a truly wonderful relationship. Use your anniversary to remember the special memories you have shared, either via card or conversation. Of course, you may still want to get her a gift, but a special card is the most meaningful.
Read on for another quiz question.
A token for the future
Close! Dreaming about the future together is incredibly romantic. Still, in order to do that, you'll want to focus on memories and your shared journey as well.
Pick another answer!
Understand that little things mean a lot. While big romantic gestures may have their place, it's the little things that show a woman how much she means to you. Thoughtful acts like bringing her a cup of coffee in the morning or putting air in her car tires are very concrete ways of saying "I love you" without you having to utter a word. Be consistent. Show her in some way each day that you're thinking of her and trying to make her life a bit easier and happier.
Send a message. Scratch out a quick note, send her a text or fire off an email to let her know you're thinking of her. If she has a big day coming up--a job interview, a presentation at work--send her a message of encouragement and support.
Give compliments. You may never have to answer the question, "Do these pants make my butt look big?" if you're quick to compliment your woman on her appearance. Dispel any insecurities by saying nice things about parts of her body she might feel less than great about, and don't forget to compliment the things you find most attractive about her. Don't underestimate the impact of a simple "You look beautiful"--that pretty much says it all.
If you do get the "Do these pants make my butt look big?" question, the correct answer is always "No."
We all like to be recognized for the things that make us special, so compliment your woman for being who she is. Is she creative, fascinating, funny? Do you admire her achievements and her outlook on life? Tell her! And be sure to look her straight in the eye when you do so.
Follow her lead. Initially, let the woman set the pace for your physical relationship. No woman wants to feel pressured to have sex before she's ready, and everyone has a different timetable for being ready. Let her know how you feel, but back off (without pouting) if she wants to wait before getting intimate.
Embrace foreplay. Physiologically, experts agree that foreplay is an important part of sexual health. In fact, an Australian study found that the majority of women are more aroused by the idea of foreplay than sex itself. Hold, touch and caress your partner, play games or talk dirty. If you're not sure what your woman likes, ask. Just do it outside the bedroom. It's easier to have that conversation if you're not just about to have sex.
Pop the question. If you love her, you're ready to settle down and you know she's the one, then make the commitment. If you plan to propose marriage, be sure you mean it. Buy a ring if you can, get on one knee and tell her that you can't imagine your life without her and ask if she'll do you the honor of becoming your wife.
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Right before you have sex
Not necessarily! This is an important conversation to have, and you'll both be distracted if you're about to have sex. Consider other times for broaching the subject. Click on another answer to find the right one...
Right after sex
Not quite! After sex, you'll probably both feel drowsy and content. It's probably not the time to have an important conversation like this one.
Try another answer...
Outside of the bedroom
Nice! Discussions about what you want in the bedroom are very important and require focus and honesty. Removing that conversation from the bedroom will help you both to be honest and open without any pressure.
Read on for another quiz question.
On the phone
Not exactly! It may feel easier to have uncomfortable conversations like this on the phone, but discussions about what you both look for in the bedroom are important. They require openness and honesty that you really can't get unless you're in the room together. Guess again!
My girlfriend always disrespects me. What should I do?
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Calmly talk to her about how you feel, and ask that she stop saying the things that you find disrespectful. If she refuses to do so, find someone else.
My girlfriend always gives out her cell numbers to other men. Is it right to compain or should I just sit back and do nothing about that?
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Let her know (gently) that you're bothered by her doing that, and explain why. If she cares for you, she'll stop.
My girlfriend is a strong woman, polite, kind, and respectful. The problem is, I made a big mistake when I treated her like a kid. She's doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?
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Give her a genuine apology, tell her that you know what you did was wrong, and promise things will be different in the future. Then make every effort to change your behavior. Keep in mind that she may need some time and space to forgive you, or she may not forgive you at all, and you will have to accept whatever she decides.
Whenever my girlfriend is broke, she will be so stressed that she won't want to talk to me. Should I ignore her too?
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Sometimes your girlfriend will want or need space and time, but secretly she needs someone to lean on during these times. Ask if there is a time when you can come over, and just be kind and considerate, even if that occurs in silence. Responding with anger yourself isn't going to make either of you feel better. Alternatively, sit down with her and ask her what you can do to make her feel better when she doesn't want to talk. That way you'll know exactly how to help in the future.
Is respecting women easy?
Is respecting other guys easy? Women are people. There's no special handbook on respecting them. Just treat them like people.
How do I get my boyfriend to stop comparing me to the girls he sees?
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Being honest with your partner is one of the most important things in a relationship, so you have tell him what you truly feel, which is that he's hurting your feelings with his words and behaviors. Once you're open and honest with him, the two of you can talk about the solution to your problems.
How do I apologize to my girlfriend after a long breakup?
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Show her that you have changed since the breakup. Often when girls break up with people, it's because of differences in habits, life goals, etc. Whatever the issue was at the time, show her that you deserve a second chance.
How do I fix the jealousy thing? My girl gets jealous if i just look at another woman.
wikiHow Contributor
How long are you letting your eyes linger on other woman? If you're obviously checking another woman out, you shouldn't blame her for being upset or offended. Control your gaze, and invest in assuring her of your affections and her beauty in your eyes. Jealousy often stems from insecurity, and you can't necessarily fix that, but you can do a lot to set her heart at ease.
Why shouldn't I open doors for her? That's one of the most basic forms of courtesy.
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It is, but only if she thinks of it that way. Some women, for whatever reason, may find it demeaning or like you are implying she can't be independent when you do things like that. Get to know your woman, and find out what she wants.
Is it rude for me to tell my girl to stop telling me about when other men approach her?
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It's not rude for you to ASK your girlfriend to stop telling you about this. Don't get angry or upset about it, just calmly tell her how it makes you feel and that you'd prefer she stop.
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Don't make then break a promise.
Take her on a romantic break and somewhere really special if you are in a relationship, or a special night out if just dating.
Let her know how it makes you feel to have her as a girlfriend, and that there's no other person in the world you'd rather be with.
Tell her she's important to you, that she's special to you, and that she's beautiful on a regular basis.
Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
Buy her little gifts if you see something that she would like (don't wait for a special occasion).
Try to engage her with tasks which are otherwise difficult for her, like involve her with repairing your old stereo, fixing and washing your car etc. This would give her the feeling of being your true friend.
Help with her projects, whether she helps with yours or not! But keep in mind you never want a selfish girlfriend, if you're doing everything you can to help her out, expect the same in return. She'll
to do whatever she can for you, too.
Acknowledge her appearance tell her she looks beautiful.
Don’t compare her to other women.
Do not lie to her. You will lose her trust and she won't know what to believe.
Don't be obsessive over her or on top of her 24/7--women need their space.
Treating a woman well is one thing. Sacrificing your self-respect and dignity is another. Maintain a sense of self and your own values. If you communicate your feelings about your own self-respect and dignity. Someone who respects himself can be all the more attractive.
Remember that all women are different. Never, ever say things like, "I bought you flowers. You're supposed to like that. You're a woman!" or "You better like what I bought you. I paid a lot of money for it."
Don’t verbally abuse her or her family members.
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