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求写得很好的英文歌词
3）歌词最好是朴素一点或者表达独特 但不要太晦涩难懂：1)经典老歌的歌词不要!2)动不动就是“OH Baby~~~”“Love”等词汇的歌词也不要要求
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d maybe think there's not the shape of my heart他玩牌的样子似在冥想从未有人怀疑他的智商他并非要赢得金钱也不是为了人们的敬赏他只想找到一个答案那神秘的几何概率那无法预料的结果各种法则在数字下隐藏我知道黑桃代表卫兵的剑我知道梅花是战争的炮枪我知道钻石象征着财富但是我的红心，我的心它没有形状他可以打出钻石王子他可以打出黑桃皇后他可以隐藏手中那张国王而那些回忆;t play for respectHe deals the crads to find the answerThe sacred geometry of chanceThe hidden loaw of a probable outcomeThe numbers lead a danceI know that the spades are swords of a soldierI know that the clubs are weapons of warI know that diamonds mean money for this artBut that'm not a man of too many facesThe mask I wear is oneThose who speak know nothingAnd find out to their costLike those who curse their luck in too many placesAnd those who fear are lostI know that the spades are swords of a soldierI know that the clubs are weapons of warI know that diamonds mean money for this artBut that&#39，表达挺独特的，我挺喜欢这首歌的Shape of my heartHe deals the cards as a meditationAnd those he plays never suspectHe doesn's something wrongI's not the shape of my heartAnd if I told you that I loved youYou't play for the money he winsHe doesn's not the shape of my heartHe may play the jack of diamondsHe may lay the queen of spadesHe may conceal a king in his handWhile the memory of it fadesI know that the spades are swords of a soldierI know that the clubs are weapons of warI know that diamonds mean money for this artBut that&#39电影这个杀手不太冷的歌词
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Carry on till tomorrow和Then Silence也不错，Coldplay的歌词我虽喜欢，但不是我想要的类型
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目前我知道歌词最好的英文歌曲就是--A Place nearby
给你一个中英文对照的！！
A place nearby
天堂若比邻
I entered the room
我走进房间
Sat by your bed all through the night
坐在你床边整夜未眠
I watched your daily fight
回望你曾有的坚强
I hardly knew
我终于明白
The pain was almost more than I could bear 那种疼痛我无法承受
And still I hear 而今我仍能听到
Your last words to me 你最后的话语
Heaven is a place nearby 天堂就在不远的地方
So I wont be so far away 所以我也不会很远
And if you try and look for me 你若要找寻我
Maybe you will find me someday 某一天 你终能把我找到
Heaven is a place nearby 天堂就在不远的地...
林肯公园的What I've Done
我感觉这个写的很好
In this farewell
There’s no blood
There’s no Alibi
‘Cause I’ve Drawn Regret
From the truth
Of a Thousand Lies
[Pre-Chorus:]
So let Mercy Come
And Wash Away
What I’ve Done
I'll face myself
To Cross out what I’ve Become
Erase Myself
And let Go of What I’ve done
Put to rest
What you Thought of Me
While I clean this Slate
With the Hands of Uncertainty
[Pre-Chorus]
For What I’ve Done
I start again
And whatever pain may come
Today this ends
I’m Forgiving What I’ve Done!!!
What I’ve Done
Forgiving What I’ve Done
穷街的18 and l...
coldplay的what if 写得很好，很押韵很有深度
what if there was no life?
nothing wrong, nothing right.
what if there was no time?
and no reason or rhyme.
what if you should decide,
that you don't want me there by your side.
that you don't want me there in your life.
what if i got it wrong
and no poem or song
could put right what i got wrong
or make you feel i belong
what if you should decide
that you don't want me there by your side
that you don't want me there in your life.
oooh, that's right
let's take a breath jump over the side
oooh, that's right
how can you know it if you don't even try
oooh, that's right
every step th...
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建议您再听一下这首歌
Alone Forever
I can't believe
I'm holding on to everything you said
When you don't say it anymore
So many people told me
But I couldn't breath
Just look at me now
I can't believe
I never knew that at all
It's so hard
To realize why you always do this
To me, yeah
If you don't open up your heart
You don't wanna know
How to get me back inside
You don't know
'Cuz everytime I try
You always keep me waiting
all alone - forever
I close my eyes
To drift away, leave it all behind
What I see is just the same
Maybe if I hold you
So much to say
But where do I start
I can't believe
That I never knew that at all
Its so hard
Hey Jude, dont make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
Hey Jude, dont be afraid
You were made to go out and get her
The minute you let her under your skin
Then you begin to make it better
And anytime you feel the pain
Hey Jude refrain
Dont carry the world upon your shoulders
For well you know that its a fool
Who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder
Da da da da da
Da da da da
Hey Jude dont let me down
You have found her, now go and get her
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better
So let it out and let it in
coldplay - viva la vida
i used to rule the world
seas would rise when i gave the word
now in the morning i sleep alone
sweep the streets i used to own
i used to roll the dice
feel the fear in my enemy's eyes
listened as the crowd would sing:
&now the old king is dead!
long live the king!&
one minute i held the key
next the walls were closed on me
and i discovered that my castles stand
upon pillars of salt, pillars of sand
i hear jerusalem bells a-ringing
roman cavalry choirs are singing
be my mirror my sword and shield
missionaries in a foreign field
for some reason i can't explain
once you'd gone there was never,
Artist:Eric Caspar
Song:The world is wild幸福时光
How can we forget that we need love
Even if some hearts are made of stone.
Baby, yeah, you know what's on my mind,
I don't believe the world is fine,
I think we have to wake up now.
I'm sorry to make these people laugh,
It's enough to drive me mad, enough!
baby, you're the one who understands,
They bury their head in the sand
When they should give us helping hand.
'Cause if all people dream
To live in Peace, in perfect harmony,
Can you understand me
It's such a mystery,
I wonder why,
The world is wild.
I'm not waiting for a miracle
Even if I sti...
Travis side
Well I believe there's someone watching over you
嗯，我相信有人在高空俯视着你
They're watching every single thing you say
他们看着你做每件事
And when you die
They'll set you down and take you through
他们会让你停下并且带走你
You'll realise one day
有一天你会发现
That the grass is always greener on the other side
别人家的草总比自家的绿
The neighbour's got a new car that you wanna drive
邻居买了新车你也想开
And when time is running out you wanna stay alive
时光都已流失你还想活着
We all live under the same sky
我们活在同一片天空下
We all will live, we all will die
我们都会活着我们都会死...
I ain't happy,
I'm feeling glad
I got sunshine in a bag
I'm useless but
Not for long
The future is coming on
I ain't happy,
I'm feeling glad
I got sunshine in a bag
I'm useless but
Not for long
The future is coming on
It's coming on,
It's coming on
It's coming on,
It's coming on
Finally someone let me
Out of my cage
Now time for me is nothin'
'Cause I'm counting no age
Now I couldn't be there now
You shouldn't be scared
I'm good at repairs and
I'm under each snare
Intangible (ah y'all)
I bet you didn't think so
I command you to,
Panoramic view (you)
Look I'll make it
All manageable
Pick and choose,
Sit and lose
All you d...
Take Me To Your Heart
Hiding from the rain and snow
Trying to forget but I won't let go
Looking at a crowded street
Listening to my own heart beat
So many people all around the world
Tell me where do I find someone like you girl
Take me to your heart take me to your soul
Give me your hand before I'm old
Show me what love is - haven't got a clue
Show me that wonders can be true
They say nothing lasts forever
We're only here today
Love is now or never
Bring me far away
Take me to your heart take me to your soul
Give me your hand and hold me
Show me what love is - be my guiding star
It's easy take me to your heart
In my dream 梦中
children sing 孩子们唱着
a song of love for every boy and girl 一首献给所有孩子们关于爱的歌
The sky is blue and fields are green 天色蔚蓝，大地青葱
and laughter is the language of the world 笑声是全世界唯一通用的语言
Than I wake and all I see is a world full of people in need但当我惊醒我看到的是饿殍遍地
[Chorus] Tell me why(why) 告诉我为什么
does it have to be like this? 因为是上天注定的吗？
Tell me why(why) 为什么？
is there something I have missed? 是否只是因为我没有察觉
Tell me why(why) 告诉我为什么
cos' I don't understand 我不明白
when so many need somebody 当他们对我们祈求时
we don't give a helping ha...
So here we stand
In our secret place
Where the sound of the crowd
Is so far away
You take my hand
And it feels like home
We both understand
It's where we belong
So how do I say
Do I say goodbye
We both have our dreams
We both wanna fly
So let's take tonight
To carry us through
The lonely times
I'll always look back
As I walk away
This memory will last for eternity
And all of our tears
Will be lost in the rain
When I find my way back
To your arms again
But until that day
You know you are
The queen of my heart
So let's take tonight
And never let go
While dancing we'll kiss
Like there's no tomorr...
演唱：Craig David
专辑：The Store Goes
You were her only girl 你是她唯一的女孩
The most precious thing in her world 她的世界里最珍贵的东西
And I know it makes you cry 我知道这会让你哭泣
That you never got to say goodbye 你从未说过告别
You were just running out of time 你只是不合时宜地离开
To say what was on your mind 其实你心里要说的是
You never wanted her to leave 你从没想要她离开
And mom I know it makes you grief 母亲我知道这使你伤心
But why don't you celebrate the moments that you shared yeah 为什么不庆祝一下你们在一起的时光
cause now she's watching over you 因为她正注视着你
It's true 真的
And you know it too 你也知道
Just let her go...
When I said go I never meant away
You ought to know the freaky games we play
Could you forgive and learn how to forget
Hear me as I'm calling out your name
Firefly come back to me
make the night as bring as day
I'll be looking out for you
Tell me that your lonely too
Firefly come lead me on
follow you into the sun that's the way it ought to be
Firefly come back to me
You and me
we shared a wistery
We were so close
like honey to the bee
And if you tell me how to make you understand
I'm minor in a major kind a way
Firefly come back to me
make the night as bring as day
I'll be looking out for you
Tell me that your lonely too
Firefly c...
&In the end &
现在 有件事 我不明白 为什么
不管你怎样努力都无济于事
我把它保存在记忆里
写下这首歌曲 在适当的时间 作一下解释
我所知道的是
时间是宝贵的
看着它随着钟摆飞逝
看着一天天慢慢结束
生命在钟表的滴答声中流逝
看着时光从窗外流过
Trying to hold on,But didn't even know
我努力地想坚持 但却不知道
Wasted it all just To watch you go
我投入一切的结果 是看着你离我而去
I kept everything inside and
我只能把一切放在心里
Even though I tried,It all fell apart
即使我努力过 也无济于事
What it meant to me will
这一切对我来说
Eventually be a Memory of a time when
最后都 成为了一段往事
I tried so h...
[00:08.25]Waking up I see that everything is ok醒来发现一切都好
[00:11.20]The first time in my life生命中第一次
[00:13.33]and now it's so great现在真的很好
[00:14.77]Slowing down I look around我静下来看看四周
[00:16.80]and I am so amazed非常吃惊
[00:18.49]I think about the little things回想那些
[00:20.78]that make life great让生活精彩的小事情
[00:23.09]I wouldn't change a thing about it我不会做任何改变
[00:29.10]This is the best feeling这种感觉最棒
[00:33.94]
[00:35.90]This innocence is brilliant这种纯真实在太妙
[00:40.44]I hope that it will stay我希望它能够留下
[00:43.22]This moment is perfect这个时刻太完美
this is for my peoples
who just lost somebody
your best friend, your baby
your man or your lady
put your hand way up high
we will never say bye
no, no, no
mamas, daddys, sisters, brothers
friends and cousins
this is for my peoples
who lost their grandmothers
lift your head to the sky
cause we will never say bye
as a child there were them times
i didn't get it
but you kept me in line
i didn't know why
you didn't show up sometimes
on sunday mornings and i missed you
but i'm glad we talked through
all them grown folk things
separation brings
you never let me know it
you never let it show
because you loved me...
cinderella
歌手：tata young
When I was just a little girl
My momma used to tuck me into bed and she read me a story
It always was about a Princess in distress
And how a guy would save her and end up with the glory
I'd lie in bed and think about the person that I wanted to be
Then one day I realized the fairy tale life wasn't for me
I don't wanna be like Cinderella
Sittin' in a dark old dusty cellar
Waiting for somebody, to come and set me free
I don't wanna be like Snow White waiting
For a handsome prince to come and save me
On a horse of white, unless we're riding side by side
Don't want to depend on no-one else
I'd rathe...
歌手：sum 41 专辑：underclass hero
• 搜索&dear father&LRC歌词
• 搜索&dear father&mp3
[ti:dear father]
[ar:sum 41]
dear father
演唱 sum 41
专辑 underclass hero
i address this letter to dear father
i know you was complete unknown
i guess its better, you don't bother
all our truths should be left alone
(be left alone)
(be left alone)
i learned the things you never showed me
took the chances you'd a blown
and to this day
the one and only
you remain a complete unknown
(complete unknown)
(complete unknown)
you're out there somewhere
i don't know if you care at all
it seems that you don't
it'...
朴实的求爱歌词，正如词中所写：It may be quite simple but now that it's done
It's a little bit funny this feeling inside
这也许有些好笑，但是这种感觉却发自内心身处
I'm not one of those who can easily hide
我不是很善于隐藏的人
I don't have much money but boy if I did
我并没有很多钱 但如果可以的话
I'd buy a big house where we both could live
我会为我们购置一套足以让我们一起相伴下去的大房子
If I was a sculptor, but then again, no
我要是一名雕刻师的话.. 但是目前为止还不是
Or a man who makes potions in a travelling show
我只是一个巡回演出谋生的人
I know it's not much but it's the best I can do
我知道这算不了什么 但是这是我能...
OneRepublic的apologize中文歌词
I'm holding on your rope,
我紧紧握住你给的希望
Got me ten feet off the ground
它让我双脚悬空
I'm hearing what you say but I just can't make a sound
听懂了你的言意我却只能绝望沉默
You tell me that you need me
爱我要我曾是你山盟海誓
Then you go and cut me down, but wait
伤心于你的离去我却只能空虚等待
You tell me that you're sorry
不说你的歉意是那么苍白无力
Didn't think I'd turn around, and say...
可你不会想到我要重新向你致意
It's too late to apologize, it's too late
你说的对不起已是太迟，真的太迟
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
我说过现在已是太迟，真...
shayne ward的breathless
if our love was a fairy tale
i would charge in and rescue you
on a yacht baby we would sail
to an island where we’d say i do
and if we had babies they would look like you
it’d be so beautiful if that came true
you don’t even know how very special you are
you leave me breathless
you’re everything good in my life
you leave me breathless
i still can’t believe that you’re mine
you just walked out of one of my dreams
so beautiful you’re leaving me
breathless
and if our love was a story book
we would meet on the very first page
the last chapter would be about
how i’m thankful...
Then Silence
Singer:Kjartan Salvesen
It's not about tomorrow
forget about today
doesn't matter any way
you've turn a pain to sorrow
I think i lost debate
(but) We miss you
i can't under what's been done
For game is over
then silence
So you say your last goodbye
and leave the world behind
and pray,you never let them down
when you look up to the sky
the angels start to cry
for you You're singing
Never gotta to tell you
I wish you have known
we should've been gone
I never said how well you
leled me into life
I miss you
sometimes it's worse So they know
they let it go~,
then silence.
So you say your l...
love is color-blind
It don't matter if you're black
white or yellow, if you're brown or red
let's get down to that
love is color-blind
I remember when
I was a child and couldn't understand
people having fun
discriminating all the different ones
mama just used to say
when you grow up you'll maybe find a way
to make these people see
that everything I do comes back to me
You gotta live your live
we're all the same, no one's to blame
they gotta live their lives
just play the game and let love reign
I remeber as a young boy
I watched my neighbourhood go up in flames
I saw the whole thang thru tears of pain
and a situation's rac...
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出门在外也不愁Respect your spouse. If you want to have a healthy marriage, then you have to make your spouse feel like your equal and take his feelings into account whenever you’re making a decision or just going about your day. If you treat your spouse like his opinions don’t really matter or like you always have the final say, then you’re bound to have an imbalance in your marriage. Make sure that you give your spouse’s views the same seriousness that you give your own and that you take the time to listen to your spouse and make him feel like you care.
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make an effort to really hear him out and to care about what he’s telling you. When you’re having a real conversation, put away your phone, make eye contact, and be considerate enough to really listen.
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Ask your spouse questions to show tha you don’t want him to feel like he’s boring you.
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Never say things in anger intentionally meaning to hurt your partner. Cruel words you said but didn't mean may be hard for your spouse to forget—they can cause lasting damage to your relationship. If you do end up saying something you don’t mean, make sure you apologize.
When arguing, keep to the subject and try not to personally attack your partner.
In order to have strong communication, you have to be aware of your partner’s thoughts and moods even before you have a conversation. You should be able to read your partner’s body language and expression to be able to tell whether something is wrong and to feel comfortable bringing it up.
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If you and your partner are out in a social setting and you notice that something isn’t quite right, don’t ask about it
pull your partner aside to show that you’re really paying attention.
Don’t forget to say "I love you". Don’t ever think that you don’t have to say “I love you” because your partner should already know how you feel. Make an effort to tell your partner how much you love him or her at least once or twice a day and make sure you slow down, look your partner in the eyes, and say it like you really mean it. Don’t just say “Love ya!” as you leave the house or say “love you” in a text message—take the time to let your partner know how much he really means to you, in person.
Making this small effort to say these three sacred words can make a big difference in your relationship.
Don’t just say these words because you want something or because you’re mak say them just because you truly feel them. That’s when it means the most.
Start your day with a warm kiss or a hug. Making this effort to be affectionate when you start your day can lead you to feel more loving toward each other for the rest of the day. Though you may want to get started with your morning coffee and grooming routine, just spending a few minutes hugging, kissing, or cuddling your spouse can help you start the day off on the right foot. If you don’t see each other all day, then this affectionate gesture can make a lasting impression until you see each other again.
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If you feel like your schedules have been insanely busy and you haven’t had time alone together, then you should try to steal even a few minutes of your spouse’s time, whether you go for a quick walk together during a family outing or spend some time alone at a party.
As for your dates, make sure you plan those well ahead of schedule, so you and your spouse know to keep your schedules clear for those dates.
Don’t underestimate the power of touch. Make sure to hug, touch, reassure, kiss, hold, or just be near your partner as much as you can. That physical connection can help keep your relationship strong and can make you feel close to each other, even if you’re not always on the same page. If you grow distant or cold and don’t even sit near your partner when you’re on the couch together, your relationship will grow distant, too.
Not everyone likes to be touched the same amount, especially not in public. Even if you’re not a big hugger, or a PDA person, make sure you give your partner reassuring touches at the right moment as much as you can.
It goes without saying that maintaining a healthy sex life can also help your relationship flourish. Be open and honest with your partner about exploring what you like and don't like.
Don't forget to do the little things that make each of you smile and feel loved. Whether it’s giving your partner a kiss on the hand, doing chores for him when he’s having a busy week, or leaving a sweet note on the mirror before you leave for work, you should never stop doing the little things, no matter how tired you are or how comfortable you feel in the relationship. You should never get lazy when it comes to your marriage and make sure to always make your partner feel special and loved.
If you’ve been too busy to do some of the usual things you do for your partner, try to make up for it when you have a bit more time. Let your partner know that you’re aware that you haven’t been as attentive as usual and that you want to make up for it.
Let your partner know how much you appreciate him. Make sure your partner knows how much you appreciate the little everyday things he does, like doing the washing up or making the bed. Don’t take those things for granted and tell your partner that you really do love and appreciate him and are grateful for all of the help he gives you. Of course, you can also respond by doing things that make your partner appreciate you in return.
You can even write your partner a love note thanking him for all of the things he’s done for you, from taking care of the dog while you’ve been sick to planning the most amazing birthday party ever for you.
Surprise each other with little gifts or tokens of appreciation. This will make the moment even more special. Gifts need not be extravagant or painfully expensive. It is always the thought that counts. A little something to create warmth and sweet memories can go a long way. Pay attention to your partner to hear what he’s been wanting and to get that unexpected gift for him at the right time.
Though special occasions, such as birthdays or anniversaries, can be a great time to give a gift, sometimes the most thoughtful gifts of all are given just because. Then your spouse won’t feel like you gave a gift just because you were obligated to do so.
Help your spouse out when he needs it. If your husband has had a busy week, then you should be understanding of that and spend more time cooking or doing work around the house. When you’re having a hectic time, he should do the same for you. Though you should find a balance of work that makes sense for both of you, if you care for your spouse, you should make an extra effort when he really needs you most.
Your spouse may even deny that he needs extra help, but if you can see that he is stressed out and overwhelmed, make the effort to cook, take care of the dog, or run some basic errands that week.
Make time to do your own thing—and to let your spouse do his. You may think that you and your partner need to do absolutely everything together in order to live a happily married life. However, if you really want to maintain your bond, then you have to keep up some level of independence. If you and your partner do absolutely everything together and have no time to develop your own interests, then you are likely to become codependent and to lose a sense of your own identities.
If you both spend time pursuing your own hobbies and interests, then you’ll continue and grow as people. You don’t want to be the exact same person you are now twenty years from now, do you?
Plus, if you and your spouse spend more time apart, then you’ll be able to appreciate the time you spend together more. It’s easier to take each other for granted when you’re always together.
You don’t have to bring your spouse along every time you hang out with your friends just because you’re married. Though you both should be integrated in each other’s social lives, it’s important to make time for “guy time” or “girl time” too, so you continue to build your friendships and your support network.
Keep the romance alive. If you want your marriage to last, then you have to keep making an effort to be romantic. While things will change after you’ve been with your spouse for a long time or when you have children together, you should still make an effort to make each other feel special, to have date nights, and to keep courting each other long after you’ve said your vows. This can help keep your marriage feeling exciting, sexy, and fun. Here are some things you can do:
Make sure to keep up with your date nights. Whether you have a date night every week or every other week, keep your dates with your spouse and make sure you don’t do the same old thing every time.
Find time for romance even when you’re at home. Whether you’re watching a romantic comedy or making dinner together with candles lit everywhere, it’s important to keep things feeling exciting even when you’re just at home from time to time.
Try writing each other really meaningful cards each year on your anniversary. Take the time to really write down all of the reasons why you love your spouse.
It can be romantic simply to keep your relationship feeling fresh and spontaneous. Going away on a last-minute weekend trip, signing up for a dance class on a whim, or opening that nice bottle of fancy wine you’ve been saving forever without planning for it can make your relationship feel very romantic and exciting.
Compromise for each other. If you really want your relationship to last, then you have to learn to compromise and to make sacrifices for each other when it’s necessary. Your relationship won’t always be fun and easy, and there will be times when you need to sit down and have a serious conversation about what to do next. Whether you’re deciding where to live, when to have children, or making career decisions that affect you as a family, it’s important that you and your spouse have strong communication and know what your needs are before you make a decision.
Whether you’re making a big decision or a small one, you should make sure that both of you get to tell your sides of the story before a decision is made.
Listening is important. Let your spouse express his feelings without interrupting or disagreeing with him. Make sure you hear him out before you say what’s on your mind.
When it comes to compromising, it’s important to remember that it’s often better to be happy than to be right. Ask yourself whether you really want what you’re fighting for, or if you’re that said, you want to make sure that you both make compromises for each other.
Incorporate each other’s friends and families into your lives. As you and your spouse move forward in your relationship, it’s important that you can integrate your families and friends into your marriage and everyday lives. Though you don’t have to be the best of friends with each other’s families or to love every single one of each other’s friends, you should work to make it feel like your families are part of one big family, and like your friends are turning into mutual friends. This can help your marriage feel more secure and can make you both feel like you have a strong support network when you need it.
If you love your spouse, then you have to make an effort to love his family and his friends. If he has a particularly challenging family or group of friends, then do your best to understand where they are coming from and talk to your spouse about how you can build a stronger relationship with them without putting them down.
Be there for the good times and the bad. If you want your marriage to last, then you have to be there when your spouse is going through a rough patch instead of waiting for it to blow over. Whether he’s dealing with a death in the family or doubting his career choices, it’s important that you’re supportive and understanding during this difficult time, knowing that your spouse will do the same for you when you’re having a hard time. You can’t expect your spouse to be in a good mood all the time, and you should make sure to be supportive when he needs you.
Of course, if you get into a pattern where one spouse is always supporting the other, that can get a bit frustrating and exhausting. If you feel like you’re always in the supportive role, talk about what your spouse can do to help you feel more like an individual.
Maintain realistic expectations. If you want to live a happy married life, then you have to understand that not every day will be a walk in the park. This doesn’t mean that you should expect marriage to be drab, dark, and disappointing, but it does mean that you should be prepared for the fact that there will be some struggles, some days of unhappiness, and some days when you just can’t even be in the same room as your spouse. It’s perfectly normal not to get along 100% of the time, and what’s most important is that you both know that and are willing to put in the work.
If you expect your marriage to be perfectly blissful every day, then you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Remember that your spouse has flaws, just like you do. If you expect perfection, then you’ll only get sad or bitter. If your spouse has flaws you’d like him to work on, such as always being late, then have an honest, open conversation about it, and be willing to change the bad habits you can change, too.
Learn to grow together. As the years go on, it’s likely that the person you’re married to won’t be exactly the same as the person you said “I do” to all those years ago. People change, gather knowledge and wisdom, and learn from their experience they may even change their perspective on a number of things, from their thoughts on having children to their political affiliations. If you want to have a healthy marriage, then you have to accept that both you and your spouse will naturally c the important thing is that you grow together, not apart.
Be understanding of the ways in which your spouse is changing. If you feel that there are problems and he or she is turning into a person you don’t quite know anymore, then make sure you talk about it.
As you grow older, while it’s important to continue your own personal journey, it can also help you to develop interests together. Whether you like cooking together, following your favorite sports team, or watching the same shows year after year, it’s important to find a routine that can give you something to look forward to as a couple.
What matters most is that you and your spouse continue to love each other and be understanding of the fact that you will both go through ups and if you’re true partners, then you’ll both grow into stronger, more capable, and more loving people.
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Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life.
Be honest and show sincere appreciation.
Understand each other.
Appreciate each other and never forget those beautiful days you spent together.
Love respect and make surprises.
Make quality time for each other.
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Above all: Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that your appreciate and say thank you. It helps you...
Always listen carefully. Some fights ruin the life even both sides do not know the cause of the fight.
If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone..
Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together and share light conversation
Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best.
Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!
Communication is the key to a relationship. One should feel free to discuss all things with out fear of repercussion at any time.
Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be - get to know each other and the way you both are. Respect that you are both individuals.
Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your mate you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, wash the car, etc
All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.
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