Broken Heart - Break Up -Healing Your Heart After a Break Up Or Divorce
How To Heal Your
Broken Heart after a break up or divorce...
you heart broken, devastated and alone because of a relationship that
has just ended?&
Dear Friend,
You think your relationship might be over. Your pain is
unbearable. You feel so lost, alone and confused that sometimes you feel
like crawling in a hole and dying. You just want somebody or something
to stop the pain so you can feel normal again.
Because of all that's happened, you probably have a million thoughts going through
your head right now.
You might be...
~ Wondering when the pain is ever going to stop
~ Trying to figure out what in the world just happened
~ Having trouble sleeping at night because
of your &what ifs&
~ Finding it hard to drag yourself out of bed in the morning
~ Trying to let go of your love but you still can't think of anything
~ Trying to stop crying but the tears just keep coming--and at the worst
possible times
~ Feeling &numb& as you go through
your day and try to appear &normal&
~ Finding it hard to focus on anything,
especially work
~ Wondering if your time with your partner was a total waste of time
~ Just trying to make it through the day without bursting into tears and&breaking down--but
you do it anyway
~ Thinking you're a total failure at love
and you'll never have the kind of relationship you want
~ Not wanting to go home knowing that your
partner won't be there and you'll be alone
And what you're really thinking is that this is all some sort of bad
dream that you're going to wake up from any moment now and everything
will be back to normal.
If ANY of those thoughts and feelings are
familiar to you, you're not alone.
We've Been Where You
Are and There Is Hope...
We're Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins and we've both been through relationship breakups that we're so painful
didn't know if we were going crazy or it just felt that way.
We've also been through breakups where we
felt so lost, alone and confused that we didn't know if we were going to
make it through the night.
We've both been through relationship breakups where we cried ourselves
to sleep because our grief was so great and we didn't think we would
ever have love again.
That's why we want to help you...
Because even though it's been a long time since we went through our
previous breakups...
We still remember that pain we felt and
we swore that we would do everything
we could to reach as many people as possible and help them heal their
hearts as quickly as possible so they didn't have to go through what we
went through.
That's also why we've created three great resources that will really
help you get through this painful time in your life.
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Healed From Our Past Relationship
Break-Ups and How You Can Too...
As we mentioned earlier, we're relationship coaches Susie and
Otto Collins and we've been together since 1997. Even though we are
married, still together and have a great relationship, we
totally and completely understand what you're going through and what
you're feeling because we've been there.
Before we got together
(and certainly long before we became relationship coaches, authors
and speakers), we both went through painful break-ups and divorces.&Susie was married
to someone else for 30 years and Otto was married to someone else for 15
We'd like to tell you our stories about what we went through and how we
were able to heal from all our pain to show you how you can too...
&Susie's Story (in her words)...
&I saw the break-up of my 30 year marriage to my previous
husband long before it actually happened but when it actually happened, I was
devastated. For many years, the two of us had drifted apart, almost leading
separate lives. I took a lot of workshops and trainings that didn't interest him
and I wasn't interested in hanging around his new friends. We just wanted to
live our lives differently.
&Together, we decided that our marriage was over but when
the actual time came for him to move out, I was so afraid and upset that I almost couldn't breathe. A few days
after he left, I remember rushing outside to lay in my hammock because I just
couldn't get my breath when I was in the house alone. My thoughts and fears
would get the best of me and even though I knew it was the best thing for us to
separate, I was truly frozen with fear about how I was going to maintain the
house on my own and that I might never find someone else to love and who would
&I felt so alone--more alone than I had ever felt in my
life. Because I married as soon as I graduated from college, I had never lived
alone in my entire life. I remember going to work in a daze and somehow getting
through the week but when Friday evening came, feeling so alone and unloved that
I didn't know where to turn--even though I had a lot of friends. But they were
married and I wasn't or wouldn't be much longer. Although they were
understanding, they really couldn't understand what this loneliness felt like to
&I felt like everything in my life had been turned upside
down and I didn't even know who I was anymore.
Believe me, I did a lot of things wrong
after my now ex left--things that just kept making my pain worse.
&I spent several months after he moved out
about him--whether he was taking care of himself, his new living conditions and
how he was emotionally.
&I kept rehashing the past. I went
over and over in my mind how we might have done it differently and
re-living the &good& times. I guess it was easier worrying
about him than how lonely and unhappy I was.
&My friends were all on my 'side' (even though the split
was mutual, my ex was involved with someone else) and I found myself playing up
the martyr role and actually liking it. It was easy to take the sympathy of my
friends and continue talking about how he did me wrong by leaving.
&I remember the day vividly when it all shifted
and I got the solution to stopping my pain. I was
standing in my living room and the single thought came to me--'What about me?
What do I want for my future?'.
&It was the first time in many months that I thought about
what I wanted for my future. I physically turned my body in the direction I
thought was my future and just stood there.
&No earth-shattering vision of my
future came to me, but what did come to me was the inner-knowing that for the
first time in many years--maybe forever--I was free to envision what 'I' wanted and
then take steps toward it.
&There were a lot of other ways I learned
to support myself as I continued to heal from my break-up.
&It wasn't too many months after that day that Otto and I
came together and started creating the magical relationship we have now. I know in
my heart that if I had never started saying 'yes' to me and to my happiness that
my magical relationship with Otto would never have happened. I had to start thinking about my future
and what I wanted while making peace with the past.
&Did this happen overnight? No, of course not. Making
peace with the past, clearly knowing what I wanted for my future and then
opening to it was a gradual process. But I decided I was worth it and
I decided that I was going to make the changes that I needed to make in myself
so that I could attract and keep the love I wanted.&
Otto's Story (in his words)...
&When my previous marriage of 15
years ended I was lost.
&My son was 8 years old at the time and telling him about the divorce was
the single hardest thing I've ever had to do.
&After the break-up,
even though I am a man, the pain was so great that all I wanted to
do was cry, go back to bed or distract myself somehow from what I was
&I had just started a
new job and thank god the job I had was one where my boss was two hours
away. It was just me and one other woman that worked in my department and
we were basically on our own with no one checking up on us.&
&This was a good thing because I was grieving so much that not only
did I not want to work but I couldn't focus or concentrate on even the
smallest of tasks when I tried.
&Since the woman I worked with was moving soon and would be leaving the
company and the area within a couple of months, she wasn't too interested
in working either so I would spend all the time I was &supposed& to be
working talking to her about what I was feeling and how much pain I was
&As I think about how I felt in the days, weeks and months after my
previous marriage ended, I alternated between feeling sad, angry (lots
of anger came up),&feeling hurt, and confused. To be honest, there
was even a desire to make my ex pay for what had happened, even though I
knew that the break-up and all these horrible feelings I was having were
not just her fault.
&In addition to losing the woman who I thought I would be with forever, I
also got to find out who my true friends were.
&Some of best friends (friends I had had for years) betrayed me and wanted
nothing to do with me after my break-up with my now ex-wife.
&In some ways, all these years later, I still grieve the loss of those
friendships. Some of those friends that didn't
'understand' were people I had been friends with since I was in the 3rd
grade in elementary school and had been through a lot together.
&Luckily, I had other friends who did help me though this dark period in
my life and I also reconnected with my family who I had become somewhat
distant from. Reconnecting with them helped give me a feeling of
stability and gave me strength that I could go on.
&I did a lot of other things to heal after my break up as well.
&I prayed, meditated and read every book on relationships and healing I
could get my hands on.
&I also went to counseling and found that to be really valuable in
finding and accepting my part in the break-up. I learned how to make
peace with all the pain I was feeling.&
&All of this helped me to get ready for creating the great relationship
Susie and I have now.&
As you just read...
We both went through a lot of difficult times in those
dark hours, days and weeks after our break- ups AND here are some
important lessons for healing that can help you ...
As you can probably tell..
These breakups of our previous marriages affected us very deeply in very
fundamental ways.
When our previous marriages broke up, we each searched for a
solution to pain, the upset, feelings of unworthiness, isolation, anger,
resentment, uncertainty and betrayal that was inside of us.&
You can probably now
see what we eventually found out--that all these gyrations that
you put yourself through after a break-up or divorce are just the ways you are trying to ease your
pain and move on.
After the two of us got
together in our relationship, we made the decision that we were going to
do everything we could possibly do to make sure you (and everyone else
we could reach) would never have to go through the pain and heartbreak
that we went through.
This is one of the
reasons we eventually decided to become relationship coaches.
It's also the
reason we created our &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& program.
Now That Your Partner's Gone and
You're Alone,
Here's How To Deal With All The Pain That You're
Feeling...
One of the best ways that will help you to heal from your
break-up or divorce is to learn how to deal with your negative thoughts and
out-of-control emotions that come up over and over.
They are actually keeping you in pain and believe it or
not, you can learn to change them so that you can function better in your daily
We're not talking about controlling your thoughts.
What we are talking about is acknowledging your thoughts
and emotions and then consciously changing them.
Impossible?
Not at all.
Maybe you have a toddler in your life or if you don't
have one right now, you remember what it was like. You might remember diverting the toddler's attention whenever he or
she was about to do something that might cause injury or pain.
You might have diverted the toddler's attention with a toy
or something else that he or she might enjoy.
The point was to re-focus the toddler's attention toward
something that was more desirable than the &dangerous& activity that he or she
was focused on.
The same is true for you when you are feeling
like a &victim& or
&martyr& and it's keeping you stuck in the past--or you are
deeply into blaming either yourself or your ex for what happened and that blame
is holding you back from the life you want.
While you never should discount your feelings, you can
begin to choose which ones you will focus on and which ones you aren't so that
you start to feel better and move toward your healing.
The 3 Minute Break-Up
Pain Stopping Technique
Here's a very simple technique that takes 3 minutes that
you can practice anytime you start to feel overwhelmed by your fearful, angry
feelings and negative thoughts.
Use this technique when
your negative thoughts and feelings are keeping you from functioning in your
daily life and you want to shift them to more empowering ones. Negative thoughts
and feelings can become a habit but they can also be changed.
SIT--Sit in a quiet
place. (The bathroom will do).
SETTLE--Close your
eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing your breath into your feet so that
you feel grounded and connected to the earth. Feel yourself slowing down and
your breathing deepen. (Maybe 30 seconds)
AWARENESS--Come into
awareness of your negative thoughts in this moment. (What exactly are you
thinking? Example: &I'm thinking that I'm a real loser when it comes to
relationships.&)
ASK--Ask yourself if you know your negative thoughts to be true--absolutely
true. Can you find evidence to the contrary? Chances are you can find somewhere in
your life where your thoughts cannot be substantiated.
ALLOW--Bring your attention to your heart or
gut area and feel the sensations in your body. (What are you feeling in your
body? Is there tightness, a big knot, emptiness, heaviness?) Allow your
sensations to be there without judging them and breathe into that area of
the body. (If you feel heavy in your heart area, breathe into that heaviness
until the sensation softens. If you felt a knot in your gut area, breathe
into that knot until it starts to loosen.)
REPLACE--Replace the
limiting, self-defeating &movie& running in your head to one that is more in
alignment with what you want in your life--because the reality is that both
outcomes are possible. Run this new movie whenever you feel your negative
thoughts coming up in the future. (If you know that your negative thoughts
aren't true but you see yourself alone forever and in pain, replace that &movie& with
one that could happen that you'd like much better. See yourself taking your
next step in an empowered way instead of the damaging cycle you find
yourself in.)
Practice this as many times a
day that you need. Keep a copy of it with your phone in case you are tempted to call your ex.
Put a copy in your car to remind you to stop yourself before you drive by his or
her new living situation.
Biggest Myth Of All About What It Takes To
Heal After a Relationship Break up ...
As we continue to work with our relationship breakthrough coaching
nearly every one we've ever talked to after a break-up or divorce has
said that they've been told by someone that the most important factor in the healing process is time.
Unfortunately, the people who
say that &time& is the most important factor in healing after a break-up are
While we agree that time
passing is important in the healing process, it's simply not the only factor
or even the most important factor in healing as some people believe it is.
Here's why...
If time passing (maybe 6 months) is the only thing that needs to happen
in order for you to heal your pain and
broken heart, then all you would need to do is let a certain amount of
time pass and poof-- just like magic-- your pain would disappear and your
heart would be healed.
Unfortunately, this isn't
the way the healing process works. It isn't just the time that's
important. It's what you do with that time that determines whether you heal
heart or not.
If time passing was the most
important factor in healing after a break-up or divorce, then it would
be like having a baby. If all goes
well, about 9 months later, out comes a healthy new baby boy or girl.
If it worked the same way in
healing after a break-up, a certain amount of time would pass and
&presto& your heart would magically be healed and you would then be able
to go into a new relationship without any
baggage from your past.
If this were the way it
really was, it would be great. But the truth is that we all know people
who've experienced a relationship break-up or divorce and many months or
years later, they are still angry, bitter and holding onto the pain of
that past relationship.&
If you ever hope to heal
your heart and find the courage to truly open yourself up to love again, you're going to have to do some things besides simply letting time pass.
SHOULD you do besides letting time pass in order to heal your heart
and truly get over your break-up or divorce?
That's a great question and...
This is what we show you how
to do in our &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& book and audio program...
What you'll
learn in our &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& book
program, you can get over your break-up or divorce.
&Surpassed
the value of individual therapy sessions
that I underwent after the breakup...&
&I ordered the 'How To
Heal Your Broken Heart ' E-book
Package a few weeks ago and can't give enough positive
feedback about it.
&The book has been helpful to
it has helped me to learn volumes of
information about how to learn from the past, how to look at the
situation compassionately and objectively, and how to
re-create my life in the present.
&Before reading the book I was
caught in a cycle of endless questions that would only
create more doubt, fear, and uncertainty about my choices.
&The e-book has showed me how
to be more forgiving of myself and my ex, and how not to
repeat similar mistakes in the future.
&I believe that I was lost in
a sense, without a good paradigm for healing from the
breakup, and the
book helped me to get back on track with my life. I
believe that nowhere else could a person find so much
valuable information in one place, in a user-friendly
format, with such powerful suggestions and guidance
for healing.
&I greatly appreciate the time
and thought you have put into this book and audio package. It even surpassed the value of individual therapy sessions
that I underwent after the breakup.
&I learned that to heal
completely, I need to regain my relationship with myself and
to set a strong foundation of insight, positive intentions
and actions to drive my life forward again, and the book has
helped immensely in this process.
Thanks so much!&
Yours sincerely,
Courtney B.
book has helped me to realize that life
truly can go on after my divorce... &
&Thank you Susie and
Otto for helping me realize that I can be happy in my future
and I am looking forward to seeing what life his in store
&Thanks again, Britney
loved this book and audio CDs. It was very enlightening in
forgiveness, feeling your feelings, seeing what you want in
your next relationship, and much more. It was more than I
ever expected in getting something over the Internet without
going to a bookstore and seeing first what you are buying. I
highly recommend this to all and will purchase further
programs. You have my permission to use any of my comments.&
got your CD's in the mail and started reading your book, I
am feeling much better. My physical body tends to get the
brunt of all the emotions going on and lately I can say that
my headaches are subsiding.
&After reading your book, I
learned to actually SEE the relationship for what it
actually was.
&With the help of your cd's
and book I have been able to realize that I can go on
without him and grieve the relationship.
&I am currently trying to
forgive him as well as myself. I will continue to read the
book and listen to the relaxation cd. I find that helps a
Thank you, Christine
&&Going through a
divorce has been one of the toughest things for me to deal with. Many
of the questions I had were addressed in 'How to Heal Your Broken
Heart.' This information has provided me with a feeling that there is
life after a divorce. Just a different one. Thanks for your help
getting people through these times.&&
Chad Tuckerman
&&Felt As If a
Giant Weight Had Been Lifted...&
separated from my husband after he sustained a mild head
injury and his behaviour and personality changed
dramatically from the person I knew and loved. I suffered
much heartache and loss--crying almost everyday for the last
three years. That is until I started listening to your 'How
To Heal Your Broken Heart' programme. I started to
recognize feelings and started taking responsibility for
&One night, I started to listen to your creative
visualisation exercise and fell asleep with the headphones
on. In the morning, I felt so much better as if a giant
weight had been lifted. Obviously, my brain took the
messages in even though I was sleeping.
&Your programme has turned out to be a life saver for me
personally and I recommend it to others. Thank you for
finding me in this big universe.&
Lesley Sutton
of the information is exactly what I would tell a friend but
until now found it difficult when trying to apply it to my
own life. I am tired of making excuses for myself and
enjoyed hearing the same words I have said many times to
others come directly at me in a non-threatening way.
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Juli&&&&&&
&Very helpful,
especially the part about how to stop thinking of that person.&&
Benita Ray
&It was very, very illuminating, particularly your
insights into how to be clear about not going back.&&
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moved by the clarity, honesty and compassion with which Susie and
Otto presented the information on ways to heal from a break up or
divorce. I had in fact just the day before begun the break up process
with my boyfriend, and this was literally perfect timing!
I took notes and I have referred to them regularly during this time
of transition in my life. I enjoyed the seminar immensely and am
grateful I had the opportunity to participate. Thank you Susie and
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&Lucy Dickinson
&I thought the information on healing a broken heart was
real helpful to me as it answered so many questions that I had in the
back of my head about starting over, and healing.&&&
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&I feel like I now have the tools I need to move
forward in life.
Thank you sooo much!&&&
Just like the people you just read about, when you apply the information
in &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& to your situation and life,
this can be YOUR new
reality too.
And when you have our confident and experienced
guidance, getting started right away is easier than you can imagine.
Here's what you'll get when you order
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Heal Your Broken Heart& Book and Audio Program ...
The &How To Heal Your
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~224 Pages
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~Reveals the Secrets for Getting Over a
& Relationship Breakup or
This book is arranged in three sections that correspond to the healing
process for getting over a breakup or divorce.&
These three
sections--&Healing the pain,& &Letting Go,& and &Moving on&-- are made up of the
top questions from a recent survey we conducted with over 1100 people
responding.
In answering these questions, we include stories from real-life people who wanted to share their experiences with
healing from their breakups with you.& We've also included a fourth section
of resources to help you on your healing journey.
When you order &How To Heal Your Broken Heart,&&you'll also get...
Recordings That Show You How To Get Over A Relationship Break Up
or Divorce AND How To Move Forward To Creating The Best Life
Possible After Your Break-Up or Divorce...
&~Available in
Your Choice of Audio CD Format or Instantly Downloadable mp3
What You Get With These 6 Audio Recordings...
On this audio recording, Susie and Otto Collins give answers
to &The 10 Biggest
Questions About Healing After& Relationship Break Up or
You'll learn about why you may keep failing at
relationships, how to keep past hurts in the past, how to get
over guilt, and much more.
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Relationship Coaches
Susie and Otto Collins
Otto Collins Interviews Dr. Steve Taubman
On The Strategies For Getting Over a Break Up or Divorce
Steve is a speaker, workshop leader and transformational
teacher, as well as the author of the book &UnHypnosis.& In this&
session, we talk about strategies for healing your
heart and creating the life you were meant to live after a
relationship break up or divorce.
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Dr. Steve Taubman
Otto Collins Interviews Drs. Laurie and Jon Weiss
In this interview, with Laurie and Jon Weiss, you'll discover the secrets to moving into
and past your grief, dealing with anger, codependent
relationships, clearing blocks and much more. You're going to
love this interview. It will be very helpful in your healing
journey after a relationship break up or
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Drs. Jonathon and
Laurie Weiss
Collins Interviews Therapist Leslie Karen Sann On Forgiveness.&
In this interview, you'll discover the power of
forgiveness, how to forgive yourself and others in your
life and why forgiveness is so important in creating your best
life possible. You'll learn Leslie's unique 4-step process for
not just forgiving others, but forgiving yourself as well. Many
important insights here...
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Leslie Karen Sann,& MA, LCPC
A Relaxing Visualization By
Hypnotherapist Beth Jordan
No matter how long it's been since your break up or divorce,
this simple relaxing visualization can help you reduce the
intensity of any pain you may be having.& By taking a few
minutes to listen to this recording, you'll be able to loosen
your way of thinking. Listening to this recording can also help
you get unstuck and give you a feeling of more possibilities for
your life.&
Listen to the Introduction
of this recording
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Beth Jordan C.C. Ht.
Audio # 6&
Relationship Coaches, Susie and Otto Collins on
&The Secrets to Opening Your Heart to Love Again after a
Relationship Break up or Divorce.&
Opening your heart to love again after a break up or divorce
isn't always easy-- but on this audio recording, we show you some
amazing shortcuts and give you some key insights that many
people have found very helpful in opening their heart to love
again, especially after a relationship break up or divorce.
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Relationship Coaches
Susie and Otto Collins
partial list of what you'll learn in the brand new book and audio
program &How To Heal Your Broken Heart&...
10 steps to healing from
a relationship breakup or divorce&
How you can avoid
staying stuck in your pain after a break up or divorce &
What you should do in
order to heal when you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts
about yourself, your ex or your relationship that ended&
The REAL reason we all
come together in relationships&
Some simple ideas you
can apply in your life right now about healthy ways to deal with the
pain or trauma of your break up&
The biggest myth
out there about how to deal with your broken heart and the
consequences you'll have to deal with if you buy into this myth &
Some tricks for
dealing with the fear and low self-esteem that come as a result of
your relationship breakup or divorce&
The best ways to deal
with the pain caused by fear of failure after your break-up or
How you can reduce or
get rid of the self-deprecating thoughts after a break up or divorce&
What to do if you are
feeling like a failure because of the divorce or breakup& &
How to replace pain with
possibility and positive thoughts after a relationship breakup or
How you can understand
why you may have stayed too long &
Ways to readjust to not
having that person in your life anymore&
The single biggest
mistake you should not make after going through a break-up or
divorce if you want to heal&
&Practical ways to find
new meaning in your life after a relationship breakup or divorce&
&How to deal with trying
to forgive and forget when you are still hurting so much&
&How to see
your part in the break up or divorce without beating yourself up&&
Why &letting go&
is so essential if you are going to move from where you are now to
having a happy, healthy and more joyful life &
The most powerful
questions you should ask yourself to help you with the letting go
How you deal with all
the &what ifs& and &should haves& that pop into your mind after a
break-up or divorce &
How you stop yourself
from obsessing on the idea that you could have done more to save
your relationship
or marriage& &
How to know when
it's no longer beneficial to continue to dissect what went right and
what went wrong &
How to give up the
feeling that you've been robbed of your future because of the
break-up or divorce&
How to let go of someone
you thought you'd be with for the rest of your life &
How to get your
previous partner or spouse out of your head when you are in bed
trying to get to sleep& &
How to completely get
rid of someone if you don't want them in your life anymore&
How to get
over breaking the vow-- &till death do us part&&
How to get over a
relationship when you still have strong feelings that that person
is your soul mate& &
How to get over the
guilt now that the relationship has ended&
The fastest and most
efficient way to learn to forgive the other person and yourself
after the break-up or divorce&
How to get closure if
your ex won't talk to you&
How to know if it's
healthy for you to stay in touch with your ex after your break-up&
How to make a clean
&break& and also remain &friends& after a break-up or divorce &
How to explain the
break-up to your children and deal with their feelings&&
How to deal with the
fear of the unknown while keeping optimistic and confident about
your future after a break-up or divorce&
The single
biggest thing you'll need to do in order to move on after a break up
or divorce&
How to get clear about
what you want for a new relationship
How long to wait
after a break-up or divorce to get into another relationship&&
How to keep past
hurts from ruining a new relationship&& &
How to maintain a good
relationship with your children after the divorce or break-up &
How to move on when
you have to deal with strained co-parenting issues& &
How to know that you've
truly let go, moved on and found the answer to the lesson to be
learned from your past relationship
How to totally &be& in a
new relationship without thoughts of your ex butting in& &
And much more...&&&
How to tell if
&How To Heal Your Broken Heart&
Program is for you ...
This &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& system and program is for you if...you are willing to really dig down deep and do whatever it takes to
heal your heart.
If you're willing to spend some quality
time with yourself in introspection--if you're willing to invest some time,
effort, energy and an openness to working on yourself, then our system
will help you.&
To Heal Your Broken Heart& program is only for people committed to moving beyond being victims and
unhealthy behaviors. If you are someone who truly wants to move beyond
your pain and loss,&this will help.
To Heal Your Broken Heart& is NOT for you If...
If you're more interested in blaming,
staying stuck and being a victim than in your own healing and moving
forward--then this is probably not for you.
If you're committed to running from, hiding from
the truth about your situation and your life and will go to great
lengths to avoid feeling any discomfort, then
this is probably not for you.
With this information, we are assuming that your relationship is over and you
are in pain and looking for some ways to ease that pain, let go and
move on. &
This book and companion audios that make up the &How To
Broken Heart& system were written and created to help you
move consciously through your relationship breakup, heal your broken
heart and start your
new life.&
Here's the
best part about this program and why you should get your copy right
When you get your copy of &How To Heal Your Broken Heart,& you don't have to wait for relief from the pain that
you're feeling.
With this program, the relief begins right now--as soon as you order.
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You can order this program and get started
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Another reason why this
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Many people who have ordered
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Other people who have gone through this information have told us that it
was more valuable to them than the therapy or coaching they had been going
What we've done is put
together our thoughts, insights and answers to top questions about how to
heal from a
break up or divorce and put them together with the advice of other
leading relationship and healing experts to give you the most
comprehensive book and audio system and program available on how to mend a broken
In addition to our advice and the advice of other leading experts, we've also included the
powerful and insightful stories of how people from all over the world
have healed or are healing from their breakups or divorces.
Let's Wrap This
As we've just
shown you, the information in this &How To Heal Your Broken Heart&
program will help you heal from your break-up or divorce much quicker
than you ever thought possible.
In fact, this
program could make the difference between whether you heal or not.
It could make the difference between whether you stay stuck in your pain
or being able to release it.
To Heal Your Broken Heart& book and audio program will help you face the
pain of knowing that the person you once loved is gone and show you
exactly how to release the pain you're feeling and gain some peace and
understanding about what has happened.
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place you are right now, show you how to mend your heart and how to
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You don't have to stay stuck in your pain and misery.
You deserve to feel good. You deserve some peace and understanding and
most importantly, we want to show you exactly how to start over in your
life--beginning now.
What we've found in our relationship breakthrough coaching practice is
that most people go through their
entire lives never learning how to heal from the pain of past
relationships that ended or didn't work out.
most people think they've healed from their pain, there are usually
parts of themselves that stay stuck and keep them from having the life
and future that's truly possible for them if they try to heal by
themselves.
Don't make this mistake in your healing process.
This & How To Heal Your Broken Heart& program is one of the best
resources available anywhere for helping you heal from your break up.
We get emails
every week from men and women from all over the world who are using our
materials to FREE themselves from their pain after a loss of love, and
we want to help you too.
Why This &How To Heal Your Broken Heart&
Book and Audio Package is So Affordable...
Because we want to help as many people as possible to benefit from
the insights contained in this program, we've decided to price it so
affordably that this is an easy decision for you.&
If youyou'll get the entire &How
To Heal Your Broken Heart&&package,
which includes the &How To Heal Your Broken heart& book and the 6 audios
at the low introductory price of only $39.95 for the downloadable
version or $69.95 (plus shipping and handling) for the version that gets
sent to you by mail.
$39.95 for the downloadable version or $69.95 for
the version that gets sent in the mail--you'll know that this is an absolute bargain compared to the
price of staying stuck with a broken heart and not knowing how to get
over your break-up or divorce.
Our goal is
simply to give you
the information you need to help you heal your pain, let go and move
on after your break-up or divorce and help you to discover how to move
forward in your life from here at a price anyone can afford.
, we'll also include these 4 incredible bonuses
absolutely FREE...&&
Bonus # 1--&Breaking
Up is Hard To Do& by Paul and Layne Cutright
In this amazing 4-page
special report, Relationship Coaches Paul and Layne explore and examine some of the
predictable stages commonly experienced by people in the process of a
relationship break up. They also show you how--in spite of the fact that
breaking up, separating or divorcing can be devastating--it may also give
you the opportunity for self-examination and a new beginning.
Bonus #2--&10
Communication Mistakes Most People Make In Their
Relationships and What They Can Do To Fix Them&&
Bonus #3--&Love
Lessons&--is a 56 page downloadable e-book that will give you
dozens of powerful insights, tips, ideas and strategies for creating
an outstanding relationship.&&&
Bonus #4--&7
Keys to Creating A Great Relationship&--a
20 page downloadable special report
in pdf format on the 7 things we consider to be
most important in creating an outstanding
relationship.&
Plus free tips and suggestions about how to get over a breakup or divorce sent to you by email.
Decide Now - Just Say 'Maybe' And Try Everything At Our Risk
Try our &How To Heal Your Broken Heart&
book and audio program for 60 Days.
If you don't find it helpful in healing your heart or if you aren't happy with
it for ANY reason, simply email us, return the physical product if that's what
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every cent you paid.
No Hassles. No Hard Feelings. We have completely reversed the risk so you have
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you, just for giving our program a fair try.
Your satisfaction is assured through our
no risk, you-can't-lose, 100%, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee.
Relationship Coaches
Susie and Otto Collins&&&
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You could spend your whole life struggling to
come to terms with your break up, what happened and why and never find the resolution you need.&
&How To Heal Your Broken Heart& removes the struggle so you can welcome
the peace, freedom, happiness
and hope that you really want into your life with open arms--once and for all.&
Remember, you're not alone in this.&
With this program, we
take you by the hand and show you step-by-step exactly how to get to the
root of these painful feelings and leave them in the past.& And once you do,
life will be
transformed from the inside out.&
Just say YES to you and give yourself this gift of love (Your
Order this program right now.
We look forward to working with you...
Our best to you,&
Susie and Otto
P.S. Remember, this &How To Heal Your Broken Heart& package is not
available in
stores anywhere. &It's only available here on our web site.&
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&All I Can Say is 'WOW!'
Susie and Otto's book, &How To Heal your Broken Heart& is easily the best book on the subject of getting over
a relationship break up or divorce.&
Dr. Steve Taubman -- Author of The Book UnHypnosis: how To
Wake Up and Live the Life You Were Meant To Live.
Dr. Steve Taubman
&You CAN transform
your relationship pain into personal bodacious
Susie and Otto Collins' practical, honest and
heartfelt advice will show you how&
Mary Foley , Author of Bodacious! Woman:
Outrageously in Charge of your Life and Lovin' it!
Mary Foley
&Another Tool from Otto and Susie
that will propel you to another level of
relationship growth and health.&
-- Dr. Robert Huizenga, The
Infidelity Coach, &www.Break-Free-From-
Dr. Robert Huizenga Ph.d
&How to Heal
your Broken Heart Book
Buyer and Teleseminar Attendee
Success Stories...
"Just read your book about healing a broken heart yesterday. It
has made an immediate impact! October 6th will mark three months since I
saw the person I split up with and your book, which I read in one go on
a day home from work with the flu, changed my whole perspective.
Haven't had the need to google him once today and have stopped being
curious about what he might be doing.
&Although I've had isolated moments
like this since I left July 6th, this is sustained. I'm feeling great,
and looking forward to feeling even better, day by day. What a wonderful
book! I'm telling everyone!! Have also ordered your book on jealousy -
my big problem. Much looking forward to reading it. Thank you sooooooo
much for making me feel so much better and ready to embrace my future in
a big way!!!
knew going into this relationship that it was not healthy but persisted
with the thought in the back of my mind that it was meant to teach me
something important, and How to Heal Your Broken Heart is a real road
map for that process so I&m very happy that I stumbled on to it on the
internet. I also like the way it is laid out and how practical it is in
the kind of advice and suggestions it offers. An excellent and really
uplifting book all around.&
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&Going through a divorce
has been one of the toughest things for me to deal with.
Many of the questions I had were addressed in 'How to Heal
Your Broken Heart.'
&This information has
provided me with a feeling that there is life after a break
up or divorce. Just a different one. Thanks for your help
getting people (like me) through these times.&
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&I feel like I now have the tools I need to move forward
in life. Thank you sooo much!!&
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&Thank you very much for the teleseminar. Most of the
information is exactly what I would tell a friend but until
now found it difficult when trying to apply it to my own
life. I am tired of making excuses for myself and enjoyed
hearing the same words I have said many times to others come
directly at me in a non-threatening way. Thanks again!&
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gave me more insights on how to move on with my life. It
gave me strength and courage to know that I am not alone in
this world with this kind of issue and YES I should be able
to get over it and find the love of my life when the time is
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&I was moved by the clarity, honesty and compassion with
which Susie and Otto presented the information on ways to
heal from a break up or divorce. I had in fact just the day
before begun the break up process with my boyfriend, and
this teleseminar was literally perfect timing! I took notes
and I have referred to them regularly during this time of
transition in my life. I enjoyed the seminar immensely and
am grateful I had the opportunity to participate. Thank you
Susie and Otto!&
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Lucy Dickinson
P.O. Box 14544
Columbus, Ohio 43214
(614) 568-8282